Mimi is PIKON

hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

alavettt!!!!!!!!! ^_^

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHuJlH5RuuI

Another grateful episode with my Mimi bibi boo boo!

^_^

Respect should not be taken for granted

Respect is a huge thing. All the problems in the world are still problems because people take paying respect for granted. It is reality that every single life needs respect. Without respect, love won't have the same meaning.

People need to be respected. There are no exceptions. Others might say, That person doesn't deserve respect because he is disrespectful himself. That's wrong. Its like saying you are perfect. You know you are not. I mean, who do we kid?

Everyone needs and deserve respect.

Toying with people's emotions is disrespectful and thinking of getting away with it is utterly STUPID! You will never find true happiness with that kind of attitude my friend. Just because you got away with it once (or even many times) doesn't mean you will always get away with it. There will come a time when you need to pay for your disrespectful actions. If it is wrong, in one way or another, light or heavy, might affect you greatly or not, it will always backfire.

So while there is still time. Start respecting every single soul before you lose the most precious dream that you never really had. Don't wait till it's too late. It doesn't mean if its fun and it makes you feel good, its right. Fun is not equal to happiness. Happiness is a broader more respectful term. We are always granted of what we only deserve. If we've already done a lot of mistakes, the sad painful hard TRUTH is, we can only accept reality and the consequences and equivalence of all our actions.

From there, we must move on and care and be grateful for what we are blessed with.

A day with Mimi with TREES

This is Mimi. This is her after scratching my whole body look. Yup! She's nastei! I love her!!! ^_^

So, this morning I went to the chapel with my freaky friend Bianca. I went with Mimi and Mamu (we three are inseparable). As we got to the chapel at 6:15 in the morning. I kept searching and searching until Mamu shouted Kerla, hihihi, eto si Bianca oh, hihihi. Its surprising that I didn't recognize Bianx because she had her hair cut! What's more surprising is that she didn't cut it herself! Cool. So we waited for the mass, as we do we chatted cus we haven't seen each other for long. The mass went through with Mimi on my lap and when we're supposed to stand up i had to carry her with my arms.

After mass, we went to my place to get some carbs then we headed straight to neverland. Flying sessions!!!! Yey!!!!!

Anyway, Mimi got tooo excited she gave it all out. (pooppie puppy!)

I got to pay her charity back though.

Harr harr!

Another grateful episode. ^_^

Laziness Justified

Phew.

I keep on thinking and thinking and thinking and thinking and thinking. Ever since I've read Don Miguel Ruiz' book, I never stopped. I like what I am feeling. I never thought it was possible to have this kind of peace. I used to worry about this. I used to think I was crazy. But I'm not. I just got sooo used to living with lies that I find it weird to live with the truth and reasons.

I'm a huge fan of the truth. But back when I was younger, I always lied. I always lied because I was so damned lazy. Laziness was my middle name. My uncles used to tease me Karla T which means Karla TAMAD (lazy in Filipino). So yeah, I grew up knowing I was lazy, embracing it and living it. I was truly lazy. I thought it was a bad thing until two days ago.

I was not lazy for no reason. I was lazy because I am practical. I was lazy because not being lazy didn't make sense to me. Lazy felt good. Lazy was easy. Lazy was good for me. Lazy required little of my efforts. Lazy doesn't require any consistency that bores me. Lazy was the BOMB!

Then it hit me.

I had really good teachers in grade and high school. There are Mrs. Cojuangco, Ms. Aragon, Mrs. Sabado, Mrs. Jimenez, Mrs. Merza, Mrs. Dizon, Mr. Cerezo, Mr. Inocencio, Mr. Punye, etc. My college life was better! All my teachers were great! Ms. Lupisan is the Dean I never thought could exist. Dr. Mendoza made sure we were disciplined enough. Sir Dan gave us all the love. Sir Buen stood up for what he believed was best for us even though everybody hated him for that. Mr. Araneta inspired us to be whoever we want regardless of where we come from. Dr. Racho made fun of us as he opened our philosophical beings. Ms. Bina was too caring to see the bad in anyone. Ms. Jam and Ms. Afable were the coolest! Both Miriam College Alumni: Ms. Jam chose to give back the care and understanding that her teachers gave her back when she was still a happy-go-lucky student; Ms. Afable, on the other hand, shared her love and her experiences of success through hardwork. Mr. Yuviengco, the reason why I created my first blogger account, did his best to relate to our generation and shared his realizations with his co-teachers. Dr. Anonuevo, who was a Palanca awardee for a Filipino work though she taught English, really amazed me much. I feel proud that I got to be taught by these great teachers. Mr. Toledo, also a Palanca Award(s) recipient, though he made my nose bleed all the time, never failed to impress me of his artistry and depth. Ms. Adame, the professor who didn't seem to have a funny bone, ended up to be my first favorite teacher in Miriam. She fooled us by pretending to be a terror teacher. I'm too lazy to write all of them because I'm to excited to move on. Anyway, I hope nobody gets mad for not being mentioned. I may not include the names of my other teachers but I definitely remember all the wisdom that came from their sacred voices.

It was late elementary and high school that I realized I could be an achiever. Credits to all my teachers (Of course, my parents were my 1st teachers and life guides). It was in high school that I realized I needed to clean my acts. It was in high school that I really started proving something. I thought I was a real slow learner. I have a weak memory. I sucked at history. I was lazy to memorize all the things that I thought didn't really have use in my life. I used to regret not being and making the best out of the early chapters of my life. I used to look down on myself and compare myself to those who really do good, get high grades and medals, attention, things they want, etc. I used to think I was nothing but a lazy daisy. Someone to be condemned for eternity. But I never gave up. I knew there must be something out there.

Although it wasn't easy being different, I knew I was on the right path. My life was a great challenge. My dad was very strict. As in, OA strict! Like NBI strict. I never really understood why he was over. I didn't know what was allowed to do and what was not. So, I played safe. People say I was an obedient child. But they don't know anything.

I wasn't obedient at all. I would lie. I would do things behind my dad's back (thanks to mom's consents sometimes. we ganged up on him, me, my sibs, and mom. harr harr dad). I was just being practical. I never understood my dad's reasons. My parents taught me to always be safe than sorry. So I waited. I tried to understand him. I tried putting myself in his position. This way, I'd know why he acts the way he does and reasons the way he does then i thought probably things might make sense.

My dad is a great person. He's the most giving person I'd ever known. He's just really misunderstood. I used to really hate my dad. He was really irritating. He's personality just sucked. He was always always mad for no reasons. I would hear people talk behind his back. Talking behind daddy's back was the normal scenario anywhere I go. People hated him. People avoided him. But people depended on him.

What I like most about my dad is that he takes responsibility. My dad taught me discipline. Serious discipline and practicality. He gave me my first serious book by Og Mandino. My mom, on the other hand, taught me unconditional love and to live life fully. She taught me how to be lazy and be happy. I tell you. I don't know how my parents liked each other. They are COMPLETE opposites. (Which is a really great thing! I got to see two totally different perceptions of things.) Daddy was the typical egotistical man and mommy was the typical martyr mom. I am the love child.

Moving on!

There came this time i think it was in 2004 or something that they really got into a big fight. We were on our way to Tarlac for Christmas day and the two were fighting like animals inside the car with me and my siblings inside. Gosh the DRAMA! I couldn't believe what I saw! My parents fighting in front of US! Instinctively, I entered the scene, you know like in the movies (it was sooo coool!). I shouted at them like Will you please stop! I felt like the superhero of the world! But of course, parents' ego, they got mad at me and continued fighting until my brother Jio cried. That was a huge smack on my parents' faces. They didn't want us to see that. Of course no one could blame them for being really mad at each other. They didn't talk things out with each other. My dad was the typical I will shut up so I pass the fight scene type and my mom was the typical I will say what I feel because I'm a woman type. So yeah. They had great communication. They hid nothing from each other. They argued with each other when needed and they didn't talk on each other's backs. The last three sentences are all lies.

This is just one drama you can witness in the family. If not for these kinds of dramas, I wouldn't be the person that I am now.

So I was lazy because of the drama? Ok, I'm lost. Anyway, the point is we all have dramas in life. I chose to fight! Dramas are challenges to be taken. I was physically lazy but my mind was not. All of us have lazy monsters inside us. Whispering, always. Others are lazy to act, others to think. While others are just lazy all over.

Laziness roots from somewhere deep. Laziness is not bad. Its actually a sign. An alarm. It signals us that something is wrong. I was lazy because things didn't make sense. I was lazy because I thought life was nothing but a series of tiring nothingness. When things finally made sense to me, I dropped the lazy attitude. It wasn't easy I tell you. Throughout high school and college I envied those who do and accomplish things without efforts. I thought I was such a LOSER because everything was sooooo hard for me.

I was a person of really bad habits. I was sooo lazy that I didn't have good eating habits, sleeping habits, taking a bath habits, not picking your nose habits stuff like that. It was sick! I couldn't even read for 30 minutes because I got used to staring blankly on books pretending to read so my parents won't get mad. I had to stay on watch of myself as i studied and read in college because whenever I let my guard down I ended up daydreaming and spacing out. Sheesh! Sucks for me.

So yeah. You parents and teachers! Don't be hard on your lazy children and students! They must be lazy for a reason. They are lazy because, maybe, something is not right. Things don't make sense to them. So let things make sense to them. Children do think. They have minds as (or maybe even more) powerful as yours. Explain things to them. They will understand.

Mimi understands me. Mimi is a dog, a 5 month old dog. If a dog can understand, how much more a human. Don't underestimate them because of their age. You don't know any better. You were a child once. You should know. Age shouldn't matter. I tried to understand so now I am understood. Now, my relationships are priceless.

Keep searching for answers yourself. Keep your ears open. If you're not happy, something should be wrong. If it doesn't feel right, something really isn't right. You should be happy. Happiness is the right thing.

Respect every life. If things don't work the way you want them to, then you should change the way you act and think. Stop doing things that have many times been proven wrong. Its by changing that we realize changes.

I'm just so grateful that things make sense to me now. I hope the same for everyone else.

Think about it. As you do, remember to start with GRATITUDE. ^_^

I don't need a man

I don't need a man to make it all happen.

We don't need anyone. We don't need anything. We already have it all. God have already provided. We just need to be grateful.

Who and where in the world did the thought that we need any more come from? All our lives we've been lied to! I'm sick of these lies. I really am! I had severe asthma attacks and heavy coughs because of these lies. WE DON'T NEED NOTHING!!! We don't even need GOD because he is already here he has already provided.

We really need nothing anymore. Why did we think we needed man? We can't even set things straight with ourselves. We can't even understand ourselves. We can't even support ourselves fully. We can't even beat our own simple simple little problems. Parents think they need money. Children think they need toys. Girls think they need boys. Boys think they need power. Powerful politicians think they need votes. Voters think they need leaders. Citizens think they need the government. ETC. ETC. We think we need all these when we really need to just be plain, sincerely, and absolutely grateful.

We must understand that there is a huge difference between a "need" and a "want". I don't need men. I just want men. See the difference? Really BIG. When I say I need men, I'm actually saying I can't live without men when in reality you are alive, as hard as bones alive. On the other hand, when I say I want men, I'm actually saying I can live without men but I want to be with men. Really different.

We should stop thinking that we need anything. We don't. We already have them. We just have to acknowledge and be thankful. Let us stop wasting time thinking about what we don't have yet. We can have anything that we want to have so long as we be truly GRATEFUL first.

Let me ask you. Just how do you think can God give us what we cannot even handle yet? We can't even take care of what we already have and then we are asking for more. Aren't we being unfair? God knows what he is doing. We just need to keep the faith and be forever GRATEFUL.

The Least We Could Do Now

This has been a catastrophic start of October for us Filipinos. Typhoon Ondoy has definately made its mark to the hearts of the Filipinos. It targeted the majority of Metro Manila washing away many lives. While people were still suffering from Ondoy, typhoon Pepeng already entered the country. Houses has been rampaged, cars were ruined, properties dumped, business transactions were interrupted, schools closed, many have lost material possessions because of the typhoon. Hundreds have lost their lives in their struggle for survival. What's even more painful is that a lot have lost their lives saving other people's lives. Mother nature sure was harsh these past few weeks.

Why is this happening to us? What do we do now? How are we going to start over again? When do we get back what we've already lost? Who should be responsible for all these?

These things don't just happen. Events happen for a reason (well, i believe, not for the reason people talk about on Facebook and Twitter). Maybe this is a wake up call. This is a call for us to realize that everything here is just temporary. We must bear in mind that our possessions won't last forever, same with our lives (and we are all aware of this, right?). We are all well aware that we will all eventually lose everything and die.

I know this idea had been stressed a thousand times before because, apparently, we don't seem to live by it because we don't seem to understand what it means to live by it:

The least we could do now is to be truly GRATEFUL.

To be truly grateful is:

* to accept that everything is not truly ours but God's

* to be truly thankful and appreciative of all the temporary possessions lent to us

* to truly care for all that we temporarily own

* to love all that has been shared with us

* to acknowledge God's love

We all have one God. The world may be comprised of different religions and cultures, but I truly believe that we all worship the same God. Now, its the same God who loves us that blesses us with what He thinks we need. He challenges us to seek for wisdom and courage so we'd be able to understand what he truly wants for us. If only we recognize how much we have and h0w blessed we already are to be granted this chance: this chance of a life.

Rick Warren believes, as he wrote in his book, The Purpose Driven Life, that life is three things: Life is a test, a trust, and a temporary assignment:

Life is a TEST. We should be grateful for the challenges. If we believe that all pains, hardships, and sufferings are just tests, we will never complain about life and the unpredictable. We are constantly being tested to be better, stronger persons; like pencils needed to be constantly sharpened to be used (by God).

Life is a TRUST. We should be grateful for the faith God has in us. We won't be granted with life if God does not trust we could pull it off. We have been entrusted with this temporary life to make great things for Him and so it is just that we take the best care we could give it and everything that comes with it. We are now being called to take care of the gifts we might have taken for granted: for nature and all its life-giving resources, for our fellowmen, their lives, and their same importance.

Life is a TEMPORARY ASSIGNMENT. I have been talking about the non-permanence of everything and our existence here on earth. I hope we recognize that this life of ours is a temporary assignment: one that has been assigned for a great purpose, one that has been for His Glory. We are all missionaries. We should be grateful that we are all instruments for the fulfillment of His dreams for all of us.

The very least we could do now is to be truly grateful for all there is. We must be grateful for all that is left of us. We must be grateful for the tiniest possession that we have. We must be grateful that our country is united in pursuit of the nation's well-being. We must be grateful that many even bother to care. We must be grateful for the time efforts of other people to make our lives be even more meaningful. We must be grateful that we are able to be of help to others in need. We must be grateful for the littlest things we could do and share.

I have blogged about how I've experienced and realized how gratitude really works in bad times. Now is our chance to experience what gratitude can give us. Let us take this chance of a lifetime to be ever grateful. ^_^

Guide to Personal Freedom

Just yesterday, I noticed my friend Kristine's book on the table. She left her book at our place weeks ago. That girl. Maybe she didn't know where she'd forgotten it that's why she's not asking any of us about it or maybe she left it on purpose for me to read. Haha! She's so cute. (I love 'ya sista'!) I purposely didn't text her to remind her to pick it up because I thought the book was interesting and I wanted to read it (How mean. I know. She's probably going crazy looking for it. Well, I'm planning to return it to her tonight. M a text her after this blog. Promise. Nyahaha!). Whatever her reason is for leaving the book at my place, I'm sooo grateful that she did. It was providential. Thank you very very very much Kristine!

Anyway, the book is entitled, "The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom" written by Don Miguel Ruiz. Here, the author shares his wisdom on how to set one's self free, letting the person realize a beautiful way to live life. Don Ruiz believes that everything we believe in is an agreement and that a great majority of these agreements have been keeping us from living life to the fullest. Even Let me share you some insights:

The Four Agreements are:

1. Be impeccable with your word. This agreement tells us to speak only of truth and love avoiding the use of word to speak against yourself or other people. The truth is the only way. We must always side with the truth because nothing can argue with the truth. Your level of truthfulness determines your level of success. All the other agreements stem from this agreement.

2. Don't take anything personally. The 2nd agreement stresses that the world does not revolve around you. What people say or do is a projection of their own reality/dream that's why you should never take anything personally. Don Ruiz says, "When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering."

3. Don't make assumptions. This agreement tells us to always seek for the truth rather than to create what we want to believe to be the truth. Misunderstandings, dilemmas, and most problems arise from mis-communications and false expectations.

4. Always do your best. This last agreement tells us to always do our best in whatever circumstance we're at. By doing our best all the time, we make every other agreement a habit. It also teaches us to be forgiving of ourselves and to just do the best we can (no more no less) to be truly happy.

If I were you, I'd just read the book if I still haven't and be ever

GRATEFUL. ^_^